How Kids transitioning into Adulthood can lead Moms needing more Therapy!

The joys of being a mom are endless, as we have seen our babies grow to be more and more independent each day. Watching them come into their own, building their skills, and seeing their personalities blossom were some of the most beautiful memories of my then-littles.

However, as my kids transitioned from each stage, their dependence became less and less as they gained independence. They didn't need me as much, and it was hurtful to think of that little person that looked at me as their everything, as now being their enemy. 

Being replaced with their friends, girlfriends/boyfriends, activities and no longer thought of as important as I once was, was difficult. Those moments of me watching them coming into their own were replaced by me being a recipient of their moodiness, anger, and resentment. 

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They no longer had time for the mom that wiped their tears, cheered them on, nursed them back to health, chauffeured them to all their activities, took pictures at every event, and taught them when they didn't understand their schoolwork. I was now an outsider looking in, waiting for the moment in which all that replaced me as a mom faded away. 

It eventually comes back, but the admiration is not like before. It becomes more robust and resilient as they realize that it was not their friends that had their back, but it was you all along.

STAY STRONG MOM TRIBE!

Until next time Mom Tribe, stay well.

~Pamela